Wonderlust!

What is this fabled ‘wanderlust’ that I see strewn around quite literally every form of social media these days? By the looks of it it’s something to do with handwriting fonts, pictures of maps, and photos of fields, seas, and mysterious pathways…right?

ahh wait no, here it is:

‘Wanderlust; a yearning or desire to travel and  experience adventure.’ 

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Makes sense! No wonder everyone’s auntie and their cat has the word littered around the place as if its as commonplace as regret after a face tattoo! I mean, surely every single person in the existence of existence has had such a will…haven’t they? And I can’t see that changing anytime soon, it’s in our primitive nature to make such demands on ourselves – life is but a small window after all, and it’s on us to fill each little panel with as much colour as possible…so it may be worthy of display.

Yeah, yeah – I know! I’m being a typical liberal arts major freak and contorting the meaning of what it is to ‘experience adventure’…so apologies for that, it must be at least mildly annoying – but I just want to put forward the notion that just because you haven’t or likely won’t have a huge dramatic The Lord of the Rings type of epic in your lifetime it doesn’t devalue the journey you are already on…as long as you are living and breathing you are on your own personal adventure – just without the hobbits, and dragons.

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Although you may encounter hairy feet, and cockroaches…which is kind of the same thi…yeah alright it’s not, sorry – real life does have its pitfalls. 

Anyway, but despite this people post these wanderlust pictures, bless their hearts – and I’m not that against it or even mildly offended (I suppose i’m just being a dick if anything), but they often wrongly think that it’s the travel that they are longing for…that all they need to do is board a tin can in the sky,  eat peanuts/watch straight to DVD type films for twelve hours, then take a few photos at their guidebook destination to show people back home, and then they will feel content…but that’s not what it’s about, and that’s not what they want if they were really to consider themselves thoroughly. 

They want to step outside of the ordinary maybe because of a stagnant or complacent lifestyle, they want to experience something that shakes them from their routine, and reminds them they are seeing, hearing, and feeling human beings. They want to be in wonder…in amazement…they want that “wow” factor which you can only get by witnessing things first hand. Can you get this from travelling? Of course you bloody well can! Can you get it from opening your eyes to the beauty of life all around you wherever you are…yes! And you are not any less of a person for being more in line with the latter than that of some mad bearded traveller type who talks down to people who haven’t spent months in an igloo drinking their own urine. Or whatever it is they do – was just a quick example. 

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That’s why as lovely and well meaning as it is, I really loathe the question; “so how many countries have you visited now then?” As it is completely missing the point in my book, I mean I don’t count and I never will – in doing so you are reducing the experience to a number, and a check-list…I find it robotic, I find it soulless. The questions that excite me are more focused on the human side of things; “what did you see? What did you do? Who did you meet? How did you feel?” These are what we should really be examining…and you should ask the same of yourself whether it be on a boat in Vietnam shifting through the islands of Halong Bay…or after you attended something in your hometown; a football game, an art show, drinks with your nearest and dearest…a hot dog eating competition – whatever it is just mull  it over and think;  “what did I see? What did I do? Who did I meet? How did I feel?” 

Life is just people wandering about aimlessly trying to make sense of things – it’s just people bumping into each other and saying hello then telling their life story; everyone has a tale to tell and you can make any experience richer by bearing this in mind. You see, thinking this way gives you a greater appreciation for life, and how amazing it really is – do I forget this sometimes and wallow, sure! Pfft, all the time! But that’s just more of a reason to remind myself again, and again.

Just look at yourself – you get to meet people everyday, see things, feel things – I mean how great is that?! Also you’re hot, and have a nice personality.

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With all that said, I would encourage everyone to travel if you can, it’s fantastic…but don’t forget to look at what you have right where you are. Chances are it’s pretty damn wonderful and more than worthy of your time.

So it’s wonderlust over wanderlust, my friends. Remember that. 

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26 thoughts on “Wonderlust!

  1. I really want to travel the world one day, but I won’t plan out much, just the date I go and probably when I’ll be coming back home. I want to do the non-tourist things. I want to experience the culture through the eyes of a local. I don’t want to see what the big tourism businesses want me to see (okay maybe a few of them). I want to live from day to day.

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  2. Love, love, love, love this! This is so encouraging and inspiring, especially for anyone who might not have the means to travel all around the world. It reminds us that it’s not all about ticking off a number of countries. It’s about experiencing something new, and this doesn’t have to involve travelling the world, it could be anything that amazes or inspires you, or just a new experience in a familiar place!

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  3. Another great post John – I love how they always seem to be both thought-provoking and really funny. You’ve always got such a good balance. And, as a nervous traveller, I really appreciate this one!

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    • Ahh really glad you enjoyed it 🙂 never want to be a serious preacher type even if I do have some sort of message to convey, so try and sort that in the edit!

      Oh and there’s many reasons to be nervous, but that shouldn’t stop you 🙂 I’m the biggest worrier you’ll meet!

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  4. Hi John, I wanted to say thanks for liking some of my posts. I really appreciate it. I’m honestly grateful that you have stopped by and taken the trouble to read what I’m writing. Thanks again!

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  5. Hi, John, thanks for stopping by my blog. And i loved this post of yours. I connect to it totally, as I have never quite got the idea of travelling to a place for a couple of days doing the sightseeing and being done with that. my idea of travelling would be to go and stay in that part of the world for a couple of months, and just live the life. Haven’t done it yet, but hope to someday make that dream travel trip to Tibet. Thanks for the fun post!

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